The Braid

By Cheryl Marie Wade

gramma's hands were big and doughy and restless they crocheted a garden on muslin for my bed brewed strong black tea shuffled the deck for solitaire

an old woman's hands

but once they had been pale and light and held a tortoise shell brush once they held a tortoise shell brush while she sat before a mirror brushing her long wheat hair her thick wheat hair that I knew only gray except in the braid she wove from her brush leavings the braid she gave to me so I would always remember--

before the ten pregnancies and five miscarriages before the four children she raised and the daughter who disappeared before the five grandchildren and the great-grandchildren before

she was a woman

wheat colored

About this poem

Spoken in Wade’s stage show A Woman With Juice and in Finding Words (1995). In both it is followed by its companion poem, “you live, gramma”.

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